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Love is when you sit beside someone doing nothing yet you feel perfectly HAPPY. Enjoy each other for life is too short, and have a happy month xxx

Araba’s jaw dropped in surprise at the statement Maya had just made. When Maya had called her with tears in her voice wanting to talk, this was the last thing she had expected to hear.

“What did you say again?!!” Araba quickly found her voice and wiped the surprise from her face. “How is that possible, your husband is Ga and you’re Fanti. Your families met at the engagement…it can’t be” Araba continued, trying to make sense from what Maya was saying.
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4 Ways To Tell If He’s The One:
1. He accepts you for who you are right now, not who you want to be and never tries to change you. Are you able to be your authentic self 24/7 with him? We’re talking bad days, good days, and yep, pms days. We all have those sides to ourselves that we might not be too proud of, things we’d rather hide, and a slew of bad habits, but you should never have to fake the funk in a relationship. You’ll know he is the One if he not only sticks around ...through it all, but falls in love with you even more.
2. You trust him. I’m not just talking about commitment, although that is a huge part of the equation as well. Trust goes well beyond cheating. Do you trust him enough to share your life with him and to begin looking at the world as a team? Are you comfortable sharing your goals and dreams with him, no matter how far fetched they may seem, and more importantly, do you trust that he’ll support you in any way that he can? Are you open to his views and hopes for the future as well? Think of trust like the foundation of the life you’re building together…if it’s shaky, everything else will be too .
3. He’s your best friend. I hate to sound like a Queen song, and cheesy as it may be, the best relationships are the ones where the couple would count their partner as not only a lover, but their best friend as well. They don’t just love each other…they like each other. A lot. This doesn’t mean that you ditch your girls and expect him to cancel his weekly football game in order to go shopping with you. It simply means that he’s the first person you call when you need to talk something out or have big news to share. Additionally, it means that you genuinely enjoy spending time together and experiencing the in between moments of life in each others company.
4. When it comes to your relationship, God is first. See to it that he respects your morals and values and doesn’t try to force or encourage you to stray away from them; that is your FAITH
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They can be able to "set them up", but not "knock them down" One problem that can plague shyer guys is that sometimes their nervousness doesn't appear when they first meet a girl, but comes back to bite them soon after. Initially they manage to come off as calm and charming and make a good impression, but then fall apart when the stakes get higher. The reason this happens is that when they first run into that women she's new and they haven't had time to over think things and ...attach any nervous feelings to her yet. They'll come away from the interaction feeling excited and optimistic about where things may lead. However now they have a reason to feel pressured and jittery around her, and that's exactly what happens. The scenario then goes in one of the following directions: They're too nervous to talk to her again; They do talk to her, but they're such a withdrawn, obvious wreck that she's not interested; They talk to her, but are too nervous to be themselves, end up acting like a goofball, and shoot themselves in the foot; They're so nervous that at that immediate moment escaping the anxious symptoms takes precedence over anything else, and they act rude or aloof towards her to purposely sabotage their chance. This 'setting them up, but not following through' scenario can happen to different degrees. The first is when a guy simply sees a girl around a few times and makes confident eye contact with her. She seems attracted and intrigued and like she's waiting for the guy to approach her. He sees this, gets nervous, and never conjures up the guts to speak to her. Another variation is when a guy runs into a girl, say because he sits beside her in a lecture, chats to her for a bit, and comes off well. She seems interested. Enter the pressure. He can't work up the nerve to talk to her another time. A third scenario might be something more drawn out, like a guy has a few conversations with a girl he never really thought of as more than someone friendly to talk to. He notices she seems like she's becoming attracted to him, and he blows things soon after.
They're nervous about asking a girl to hang out Hanging out, going on a date, the idea is the same. Sometimes a guy will be able to talk to someone he's interested in, often because the circumstances put them together, so the onus wasn't on him to approach anyone. If they like someone they'll often feel too nervous to ask them out and face the awkwardness and risk of rejection that entails. They may never ask them out, or put it off so long that by the time they do they're well into the Friend Zone
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They're nervous about talking to women they're interested in This could mean feeling too anxious to start a conversation with an attractive stranger they've just noticed at a party. It can also be longer term. Some shy guys, especially younger ones, have had a crush on someone for years and years, and have never worked up the nerve to talk to her. The occasional time that someone they fancy talks to them first they often get too flustered, and the resulting brief conversation consists of some stuttered half-coherent answers on their part. That's not to say a shy guy won't sometimes be able to chat to someone he's into, but it's relatively rare. Sometimes they just won't get nervous around someone for whatever mysterious reason. At other time they can force themselves to do it, but they're a total wreck inside the whole time.

Inside The Mind Of Guys Who Are Shy And Inexperienced With Women
Over the years several women have written us to tell us how we've helped them understand the actions of a shy guy they were pursuing. With that in mind We thought w'd try to be in even more helpful and write a whole article outlining what it's like to be a man who's really shy and inexperienced with women. At the end we'll give a few thoughts on what to do if there's a shy guy in your life you're interested in.
...Combined, the points below will describe a guy who's really, really inhibited and awkward around women. Not all shy men will have issues that intense or have every characteristic apply to them. We'll list some quick suggestions at the end, but for the most part we'll describe the issues shy guys deal with and let you draw your own conclusions about how to act. As with all the other writing on this site, the points here are from a mix of our own experience and accounts we've come across of how shy guys say they think.
We will also write a follow up to this article on some of the unique issues shy women struggle with.
They're really nervous around women
We'll break this down further below, but their central problem is that they're just really anxious, scared, and inhibited around women. Almost all men get somewhat nervous when they have to ask girl out, or kiss her, or even talk to her for the first time. But when a guy is really shy his nervousness is at a level where it usually prevents him from doing any of those things. It's legitimately strong, not something where they can just take a deep breath and push through it. Sometimes this nervousness shows up as the physical symptoms of anxiety. At other times it's more of a powerful, paralyzing hesitation. Like they know how they want to act, but an invisible force field is preventing them from doing so.
To be continued ....
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